What else do Girlpool want? Tividad imagines, in the lyrics of “Junkie,” a childhood that never was, where she and a close friend could have explored their romantic feelings for one another instead of letting them lie. “I felt like I wanted it again, and a better way than, like, going to get it, was to write about wanting it.” What to do with all that yearning, though? Where to put it? “The most cathartic part of that song was allowing myself to lean into wanting it,” he says. “ Dragging My Life Into A Dream” could be a missive from Tucker’s older, wiser self to the narrator of “Lie Love Lullaby.” He yearns mightily for a past lover, but he recognizes, too, the yawning void between what the relationship was and what he wished it had been. “I cum so much to memory,” Tucker sings.Ībsence makes the heart grow fonder it can also, inconveniently, make the heart forget. The lies passing between Tucker and his partner matter as much as the sex they share - and even that’s sweeter in rosy-eyed retrospect. Tucker sings the next track, “Lie Love Lullaby,” about a relationship rife with envy and deceit. “I’ll smile at the feeling.” The song is about sex - the rough kind, with choking and screaming and “fingers up my ass.” It’s “painfully intimate,” says Tividad, and that’s the joke: “I was kind of playing with how physically intimate you could be with someone, and how little you get in return emotionally.” It’s the first of many songs on Forgiveness to throw light into the gap between physical touch and emotional knowledge. “Bite my tongue until it bleeds,” sings Tividad’s narrator.
On opener “Nothing Gives Me Pleasure,” those wounds are literal. Forgiveness is the crater left by that explosion, studded with memory-debris: burdens from old exes, fantasies never quite made real, photographs of previous, wounded selves. “I didn’t know what I was made from, the fabric of my being.” She and bandmate Avery Tucker haven’t just grown - they’ve burst through their confines. “Since Girlpool started, I’ve changed a lot,” says band member Harmony Tividad. There’s no straight line from the pared-down K Records sound of their debut, Before The World Was Big, to the bombastic industrial glitches and groans that give Forgiveness its brutalist foundation. Forgiveness is the fourth studio album by Girlpool, but you could easily mistake it for another band’s work.